Why riding a threesome could save your relationship

One of the most recurring sexual fantasies of men is to make a trio, and we don't say it, is collected by a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Specifically, 84.5% of men dream of 'ride it' with two women. Although many want, most do not dare to raise it if they are in a relationship for fear of spoiling it, but the opposite could happen.

To the actor of the HBO series 'Silicon Valley' Thomas Middleditch you it went very well put one more person in his bed. The Canadian star tells 'Playboy' that he and his wife, Mollie Gates, decided to open their marriage, at the request of Middleditch: "I could not believe it, I thought he was going to tell me 'not even fuck, give you'. But she said: 'Let's see if it works.' "

Although it was difficult at first, "we constantly argue about this. But finally has strengthened our relationship", the interpreter explains." To be honest, including other people in our sexual relationships saved my marriage, "he concludes.

Thomas Middleditch, the actor of the series 'Silicon Valley', opening his relationship to other people served to save his marriage

But the actor is not the only one who defends that sharing a bed with others can help maintain a strong and spicy relationship. Rachel Kramer Bussel, a 43-year-old book editor, explains to the 'New York Post' that "remember a trio with love that she and her girlfriend shared when they were 20 years old. "

"It was like a little excitement roller coaster sexual in our relationship, "explains the editor. But she emphasizes that it helped everything go well that" none of us had strong feelings for that person. "

It can also be fatal

Would absurd to say which, by system, riding a threesome with your partner will work out for you and your relationship will be reinforced, because it might not be that way. This is what happened to the famous actress Demi moore, which reveals in a book about his life that his relationship with Ashton Kutcher, 16 years younger than her, began to wobble when he revealed that he had been fantasizing about doing a threesome.

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"When he expressed his fantasy of bringing a third person to our bed, I didn't say no," explains the model. "I wanted to show myself how well we could have fun in bed. But having other people in our marriage gave me the feeling of horns and I thought that the emotion was only going to be temporary"points.

"Some people are not really prepared to take a third person to bed, "he explains." They just think of the taboo and it's fun. And they tend to see the third as a toy, something they can bring to bring their relationship to life and it shouldn't be like that. " .

A matter of limits

To ride a trio is extremely important establish an emotional barrier with the third person. This is witnessed in 'GQ' several people who have already tried it. "Do not kiss or hug anyone else, basically do nothing that we consider intimate," says Angela, 42. "This is not going to make love, it is pure sex. For me, it is the same as resorting to a sex toy. At that time, the other people involved are just toys."

The friends in common, as far as possible. "Generally never strangers or close friends," says Keith, 32. "They must be single, it's not about having an open relationship, just sex. We are open to all genders and are always guided by chemistry." Others, like Nathaniel, 40, are more influenced by pornography than they think. "I like to see my girlfriend practice sex with other women. Normally I don't get involved beyond oral sex, but if my partner asks me to and I feel able to do it, I will."